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The Better Idea

A story about a good builder, a younger kid’s drawing, and ten minutes left on the clock.

For a child who finds it hard to say "I was wrong" or to share the credit: read aloud and talk about hearing a better idea from the youngest person at the table. About 15 to 20 minutes, including questions.

A spaghetti bridge sags between two stacks of books on a classroom table as a girl with tape and a younger boy with a drawing of triangles look on.

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God’s Word (James 4:6, NLT): “And he gives grace generously. As the Scriptures say, ‘God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.’”

Here is a story. As you read, ask what you would do.

Fiction, founded on truth. The people in this story are imagined; the choice they face is real.

Maya was eleven, and at the homeschool co-op everyone knew she was the builder. She had made the tallest card tower in the spring and the longest marble run in the fall. So when Science Day came with a bridge contest, nobody was surprised that the older kids made her captain of the blue team.

The rules were simple. Build a bridge out of dry spaghetti and tape. Make it reach across the gap between two stacks of books. At the end, the judge would hang a paper cup from the middle and drop in pennies, one at a time, until the bridge broke. Most pennies won.

Ben was on her team. He was eight, the youngest at the table, and he talked a lot. Early on he pushed a pencil drawing across the table to her. It showed a bridge made of triangles, rows and rows of them.

“Triangles don’t bend,” he said. “My dad showed me on a fence.”

Maya glanced at it. “We’re doing a flat deck,” she said. “It’s simpler. Trust me.” The older kids nodded, because Maya was the builder. Ben folded his drawing and put it in his pocket.

For forty minutes the blue team taped spaghetti exactly the way Maya wanted. It looked good. It looked like a real bridge.

Then they tested it. Maya set one pink eraser on the middle of the deck. The bridge sagged like a hammock, and a noodle cracked.

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