A Character Lesson · Ages 8–12
The Good Samaritan
Two men saw the wounded stranger and crossed to the other side. The one who stopped was the last man anyone expected.
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Kindness · The Root
A quick note to parents
Before you read together
This lesson digs down to the root of kindness: one of the best-known kindness stories in the world, a parable Jesus told about two thousand years ago. It is only a few sentences long, and it has never stopped being dangerous.
Here is why it startled the people who first heard it. A man asked a clever, self-protecting question: who counts as my neighbor? He was hoping to draw a small circle he could be done with. Instead of answering who was inside the circle, the story erased the circle. The hero turns out to be a Samaritan: a foreigner the listeners were raised to despise, and who was raised to despise them right back. That is the whole shock. Kindness, at its root, is not something you owe your own kind. It is what you do for the stranger in the ditch.
Your child may be thinking: “I only have to be kind to people I like.”
The truth: “Jesus says you become a neighbor when you show mercy to anyone in trouble, even a stranger.”
God’s Word (Luke 10:37, NLT): “The man replied, ‘The one who showed him mercy.’ Then Jesus said, ‘Yes, now go and do the same.’”
- Notice someone in need.
- Tell a grown-up.
- Help together.
Every time you see someone hurting or in trouble, even someone you do not know, use the steps again.
How to use it
Read the story aloud. Pause where the priest passes, and again where the Levite passes, and ask: why is it so easy to walk by? Then meet the one who didn’t. About 15 minutes. Kindness does not require entering danger or accepting mistreatment. Get a trusted adult to help someone who is hurt or unsafe; call 911 in an emergency. Choose this week’s act together: notice someone in need outside your circle, tell a grown-up, and help together.
This is a parable, a story Jesus told to teach (Luke 10:25–37). We retell it in our own words and quote the New Living Translation (NLT). It sits near the heart of our faith, and you are welcome here whatever yours; you need only a child and a hard, good question: which one was the neighbor?
Here is a story worth keeping. Read it slowly.
The road down to Jericho
One day an expert in religious law asked Jesus, “And who is my neighbor?” (Luke 10:29). Jesus answered with this story.
There was a road, and everyone who used it was afraid of it. It ran roughly seventeen to twenty miles downhill from Jerusalem to Jericho, through bare red cliffs and blind curves and caves where robbers waited. Centuries later, a writer named Jerome said one steep climb on this road was called the place of blood, because robbers had shed so much blood there. You did not walk it alone if you could help it.
One man had to. He was somewhere on that lonely road when robbers attacked him. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and left him half dead beside the road.
Then someone came along. A priest came down the same way. He saw the man in the dust. There is no pretending he didn’t; the story says plainly that he saw him. And he crossed to the far side of the road and kept walking.
Then a Levite came, a man whose whole job was helping in the temple, a man everyone would have trusted. He came to the place, and he too looked at the wounded man. And he too crossed over and went on. Two men. Two long looks. Two backs, walking away.
And then came a Samaritan. Now, you have to understand what that word did to the people first hearing this. Samaritans and Jews had long disagreed about where to worship God. Luke’s Greek calls the wounded traveler simply “a man”; the NLT and many readers take him to be Jewish. If anyone had a reason to keep walking, to call it none of his business, it was this man. He was the enemy.
But when the Samaritan saw the man in the dust, something turned over inside him. The old word for it is compassion: a feeling so deep it is almost physical, a pity that grabs you low in the chest and will not let you walk on.
And here is the difference between him and the two men who passed: he did not just feel it. He got down in the dust.
What the story is really about
The question, turned upside down
The Samaritan went to the wounded man. He treated the man’s wounds with oil and wine and bandaged them. He set him on his own donkey, brought him to an inn, and took care of him through the night. In the morning he paid the innkeeper two days’ wages and said: look after him, and whatever more it costs, I will pay you when I come back. The story never tells us his name.
The man who started all this had asked, “And who is my neighbor?” (Luke 10:29), meaning, where is the edge of who I have to care about? At the end, the question comes back flipped: “Now which of these three would you say was a neighbor to the man who was attacked by bandits?” (Luke 10:36) Not who qualifies, but who acted like one. The answer could only be: the one who showed mercy. And then a short command that has echoed for two thousand years: “Yes, now go and do the same.” (Luke 10:37)
Neighbor is not a category
The priest and the Levite failed a test they didn’t know they were taking. “Neighbor” is not a kind of person you are lucky enough to be near. It is something you become, with your hands, toward whoever is in front of you, even the enemy, even the stranger, even the one it costs you to help.
Seeing was not enough
Both men saw him. Kindness begins with noticing; this story shows the second, costlier step. The priest saw and crossed over. Kindness is seeing a person and moving toward them. The Samaritan closed the distance the others opened. Notice someone in need. Tell a grown-up. Help together. Every time you see someone hurting or in trouble, even someone you do not know, use the steps again.
The old English word kind is cousin to kin, family. That is the Samaritan in the dust: to be kind is to treat a stranger like your own blood. The root of kindness is mercy that crosses a line. And the deeper the line it crosses, the more it looks like the real thing.
Talk it over
Three questions, no wrong answers
- The priest and the Levite both saw the wounded man; the story is careful to say so. Why do you think it is so much easier to look at someone in trouble and keep walking than to stop? When have you looked, and walked?
- The hero is a Samaritan, the enemy, the one the listeners were raised to look down on. Why do you think the story made him the good one, instead of the priest? What is it trying to knock loose in us?
- The Samaritan’s kindness cost him oil, wine, a ride on his own donkey, two days’ pay, a whole night, and a promise to pay more. Pick one person outside your circle this week. What would “go and do the same” actually cost you, and is it worth it?
Copywork
Copy the line below, or say it together at supper or bedtime. Words worth keeping.
“Yes, now go and do the same.”Luke 10:37
Scripture quotations are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright ©1996, 2004, 2015 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
Where the trail goes next
From the road to the real world
The story never tells us if the wounded man ever learned the name of the one who saved him. Jesus did not even give the Samaritan a name. That is the root of kindness in one small detail: it does not stop to be thanked, and it does not check whose side you are on. First you see the person in need. Then you kneel in the dust of the road.
Constellation Trail Unit Three: Kindness is the third star of the constellation. In it, a former schoolteacher named Clara Barton brings a wagon of bandages to the battlefield at Antietam while the fighting is still going on. Then comes the road to Jericho. A week-long challenge turns “go and do the same” into seven days your child can actually walk.
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- Notice someone in need.
- Tell a grown-up.
- Help together.
When I see someone hurting or in trouble, I will tell a grown-up and we will help together.
Luke 10:37 (NLT)