Help for parents · Ages 8 to 12
Bible verses for kids about kindness and feeling left out
Some days your child is the one sitting alone at lunch. Other days your child walks past someone who is. These verses speak to both: God stays close to the lonely, and he asks us to welcome others the way he welcomes us.
Bible verses, New Living Translation
Five verses to read together
“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted; he rescues those whose spirits are crushed.”
Psalm 34:18 (NLT)“Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the Lord will personally go ahead of you. He will be with you; he will neither fail you nor abandon you.”
Deuteronomy 31:8 (NLT)“Therefore, accept each other just as Christ has accepted you so that God will be given glory.”
Romans 15:7 (NLT)“Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.”
Ephesians 4:32 (NLT)“Do to others as you would like them to do to you.”
Luke 6:31 (NLT)
For the parent
How to talk about it tonight
If your child was the one left out, listen first, and read Psalm 34:18 together. Then the free lesson The Empty Seat looks at the same lunchroom from the other side. It says, “Kindness is not the same as being nice. Nice smiles and keeps walking. Kindness sees a person and moves toward them.” Its three steps to keep are “Notice who is alone. Move toward that person. Invite them to join you.” The lesson’s tip for parents is one question at dinner: “Who eats alone at your lunch?” If a name comes, even slowly, something important has already happened.
A note from the lessonsKindness does not require entering danger or accepting mistreatment. Get a trusted adult to help someone who is hurt or unsafe; call 911 in an emergency.
Two free lessons · Ages 8 to 12
Read the whole story together
The Empty Seat
For a child learning to notice who is left out: a boy, a lunch tray, and two empty seats that cannot both be taken. About 15 minutes, including questions. Read it online, free.
★ Open the free lesson: The Empty SeatThe Good Samaritan
For a child asking who counts as a neighbor: the parable Jesus told of the man left in the ditch (Luke 10:25 to 37). About 15 minutes, including questions. Read it online, free.
★ Open the free lesson: The Good SamaritanOn the same theme in the members’ library: One Seat Over and, for a child who has been hurt by a friend, The Broken Wing.
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Scripture quotations are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright ©1996, 2004, 2015 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.